It’s like several parts to be correct and for it to be For-filling and releasing for both parties. First, there’s the confrontation if you will. “You did X to me “. Second, if you’re lucky there’s the acknowledgment. “You’re right I did X to you”. Great! Doesn’t always go like that. More on that later. Third, there is the ask for forgiveness, “I’m sorry I did thatX , can you forgive me? “. Fourth, the acceptance. “ Yes, I forgive you. “ Easy Peezy lemon squeezy.Right? Thing is you can’t go back to doing what X was after you’ve apologized.... In any way shape or form because it sets me for one right back to zero dude. I’ll show you a fucking drama queen... I’m just telling the stories. And I’ve remembered them all.… |